When I was a little girl, I remember looking at Barbie dolls and thinking, “I don’t know anybody who looks like that.” The dolls were patterned after women, but were certainly not faithfully descriptive of them. Yet, there they were, defining for a whole generation of rising women what the female body ought to be. Shrink the waist, carve out the hip-line, enhance the bosom and make it all fit flawlessly into a skin-tight dress.
The Barbie doll was not created in the image of the woman. It was created in the fantasies of men. It (and the culture it symbolized) captured the imaginations of countless little girls and set them on the road to body-dysphoria. The healthy female form was now viewed with contempt, in need of dietary manipulation, targeted exercise and possible surgical correction.
We do that, you know. We manipulate our expressions of the things (persons) we find beautiful to enhance the aspects we admire and mute the aspects we find ugly or unsettling. When we do, we often forget that living entities are more appropriately self-defined. We cannot impose our own suppositions on them and expect them to conform mindlessly.
We hear it all the time: we are made in the image of God. Shouldn’t it be natural for us, then, to understand divine nature? Well, the real problem is that we tend to get things turned all backward and upside-down. We think that the fact that we are made in the image of God means that God must conform to our likeness and meet our specifications, rather than the other way around. We set out to civilize, acculturate and domesticate a God who is far beyond our limited comprehension.
Who are you, a mere human being, to argue with God? Should the thing that was created say to the one who created it, “Why have you made me like this?” Romans 9:20b
God is not malleable. Idols can be turned out to please the idolater, but Yahweh formed the world, and will not be subject to the world’s attempts to reform divine nature. Jesus made all things before He stepped into His Bethlehem Self-expression. He is not subject to revision by human whimsy. The Holy Spirit is offended when we try to manipulate divine presence to work the will of the created over that of the Creator. We are just no big enough to pull any of that off, now, are we?
Do we see that when we twist divine expression out of its true form to serve some lesser agenda, we are touching the Holy One with unwashed hands? We have forgotten that humility is more than a virtue – it is a spiritual necessity if we are to stand in the presence of God and find mercy. Let God be God (as if we had a choice in the matter) and if someone must change to find harmony with the will of God, let us do the changing, because God will not.
“My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” says the Lord.
“And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.
For just as the heavens are higher than the earth,
so my ways are higher than your ways
and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.Isaiah 55:8-9